How To Use Dragon Dildo: Pure Love Fantasy

If we can be honest, ladies have it a bit tough in the bedroom. For years upon years, we’ve heard that, while they are able to have multiple orgasms in a single sexual experience, the vast majority of them can go several romps without experiencing even one. One 2015 study reported that, of over 8,000 women, only 6% managed to regularly have an orgasm through penetrative vaginal sex and that over 54% had wildly varied odds of getting an orgasm during sex. That’s quite a problem.

Even if a man was especially skilled in sex to potentially put her in that top 6% range, there is still the issue of the time it takes either of the primary genders to orgasm. Whereas a man takes, on average, between 5 and 6 minutes before orgasming, a woman can take just over twice that amount at 13.4 minutes. This means, even if a woman managed to find a man that they were sexually compatible with, unless she was stimulated through other means, he’d likely finish in half the time it would take her.

Truly, if this was all a woman had to go off of, she’d probably feel pretty terrible.

Thankfully, there is an answer… and that answer is to buy a dragon dildo.

Dildos have been around for quite some time and have been an answer to women’s sexual frustrations ever since. Of a group of just under 11,500 people around 2018, it was found that over 78% of the women owned at least one dildo. The dildo comes in all shapes and sizes and can be made perfectly customizable to any woman’s (or man’s) specifications. This means that, not only can a woman enjoy penetrative vaginal sex as firm, long, and as girthy as she wants, but she can do it for as long as she wants too!

Yes, the dildo truly is the answer to many of a woman’s worries, but that doesn’t mean you should blindly go out and grab the first one on the shelf. In this breakdown, we will be going over what is the best type of dildo, how to choose the right dildo for you, and ultimately how to use it for the most pleasure possible. If you follow this breakdown fully, not only will you have something that will grant you as much pleasure as you’d like in any setting, but may even be the thing that gives you your first ever orgasm (trust me, if you haven’t had one yet they’re kind of great).

So, without further ado, let’s begin!

Step 1: Finding the Best Type of Dildo

When it comes to deciding on what is the best dildo to choose for you and your body, there is no definitive answer we can give. As each person is unique in a plethora of different and important ways, it is impossible to say with any definitiveness that “this” or “that” dildo will be what you need. Some may like it larger while others may want it smaller. Some women that have wider vaginas may want one with a greater amount of girth while others that are considerably tighter may need something thinner.

The number of variations and permutations when it comes to dildos is (almost) infinite. As such, we cannot give a direct answer to this question.

There are some things to consider, however, when you are making your decision on what will work for you and your body.

Quality

First up is quality. The fact of the matter is this. If you have something that is made from poor quality or something that isn’t nearly as durable as you need it to be, you’re simply not going to have a good time even if you follow every other step in this guide. Seriously! Even if you do everything perfectly correct, if the materials that make up the dildo are bad, you, at the very least, won’t have the orgasm you are craving.

Of all the different options available, we specifically recommend fantasy-themed dildos from Bad Dragon. Not only are these bad boys made from some of the highest quality silicone available (US-made, platinum-cured, and entirely body-safe) but their dildos are able to be made in incredibly elaborate and intricate designs that are entirely customizable (from color and shape, down to the actual firmness of the dildo). This all works to result in you having some of the most real and most pleasurable fantasy experiences ever.

And if that’s not enough, you can literally get f****d by a Dragon D**k!

Size & Girth

After quality, the next thing that you want to consider is both the size of the dildo as well as its girth. As mentioned earlier, if you are especially wide, getting something that is incredibly thin but long just isn’t going to cut it. Similarly, if you have something that is fairly small, you’ll want something that is similarly small so as to not cause too much discomfort.

A good way to determine exactly what you need is to try fingering yourself and using them as a gauge. You can also consider getting a relatively cheap smaller dildo and using that as a source of measurement. A small dildo is roughly around a maximum of 5 inches in length. If this is enough for you, great! Get a black dragon dildo that is around that size. If you need something bigger, incrementally go up from there. Generally speaking, most women need something around the 6 inches range, but this can’t and shouldn’t be automatically assumed.

For women that are particularly looking for that “filled-in” sensation, the larger 6-8 inch option dildos are available as an option. If you need anything larger than that… that’s a separate guide all on its own.

Realistic or Fantasy

It doesn’t matter what you are looking for in a dildo, it’s out there for you. That said, it is important for you to know what exactly you want in a dildo. Remember, the point of this is to find the dildo that you want as well as how to use it. One part of that is knowing exactly what you want penetrating you. If you want something that is more to the standard look, there are numerous options out there. Similarly, if you want some of the more fantastical options, they are available.

There are other considerations as well. Color, firmness, and overall design also play big factors. If you are a lesbian, as an example, and aren’t interested in the overall phallic design of a dildo, there are other options out there that are worth considering as well. Get something that you will want to put inside of you whenever you’re in the mood.

Step 2: Getting in the Mood

As we mentioned earlier, it takes a woman over twice as long to orgasm before a man does. A large, large part of this is due to her emotional state immediately prior to, and during, the sexual experience. In order to better improve the overall amount of pleasure and enjoyment of sex (with or without a dildo) is by being properly “warmed up” before engaging in the act.

Why? Well, while there are a number of reasons this is important, the number one fact that needs to be considered is the word “tension”. Sex naturally creates tension in the body. This tension is essentially the ever-rising building block required to actually get an orgasm. The more tension you feel, the more quickly and more intensely your orgasm will be as all that tension is suddenly released.

The issue for women, unfortunately, is that that tension and tenseness starts before actual sex can begin and essentially cuts any pleasure off entirely or greatly reduces it. While men don’t normally have this problem, due to them having a penetrative organ (though PE and ED is an example of this on their side) women, unfortunately, do.

What is the solution? Well, as said earlier, the solution is to relax the body and allow the tension to rise gradually as foreplay, sex, and ultimate arousal begin. This well-timed tension actually will cause sex (with either a person or your dildo) to feel much better, much sooner. Listed below are just some of the ways you can get your body to release this tension before actually using your dildo.

Take a Bath

Taking a warm bath is a great way to relax the body down and loosen the muscles of any stored tension in them. Adding a bit of Epsom salts or a lavender bath bomb is also highly effective as it enhances the relaxation effects of the standard bath.

Turn Off the Lights… and Light a Candle

Another great way to properly set the mood and get your body in a relaxed way, is to light some pleasantly scented candles while cutting off or dimming the lights in your room. The candles will not only add a great low-lighting atmosphere so you can let your hair down, but the collective heat generated by the candles will actually warm up the room, again, relaxing your muscles even further.

Drink a Glass of Wine, but not Too Much

Finally, a great way to relax your body and get yourself ready is to sip on a glass of wine while playing some sensual music. You can also watch some erotic videos or read an erotic book during this time. The point is to get the body in an even more relaxed state. Ideally, you should only have half a glass at the most and can slowly sip on it throughout this entire process. That way you can take just enough of the edge off while not having to worry about getting plastered.

Step 3: Warm Yourself Up

After you’ve successfully relaxed yourself, next you’re going to warm up your body (specifically the nether region in question) through some light masturbation. If you still haven’t finished your wine, that’s ok. As you are sipping on it, you can lightly touch yourself across your body, from your breasts down to your clitoris.

Just keep in mind that this is LIGHT masturbation. You aren’t trying to get off through fingering yourself. Rather, you want to slowly turn that tension back on as you climb the arousal ladder.

After about 10-15 minutes of this (or whenever you feel ready), check to see how wet you are. If you’re still dry, that’s ok. Just work on it for a few more minutes before getting some lube (ps. you’re going to need it anyway). If you find yourself sufficiently wet, that’s awesome. You’re still going to grab a bit of lube and lather up your dildo for this next part.

Step 4: Lube up Your Dragon Dildo

If after 20 or so minutes, if you still haven’t found that you are sufficiently wet, check your feelings. If you just aren’t feeling too aroused to begin with (maybe work was stressful, there’s a lot going on, you are in a house with other people, etc) then stop. No matter what you do, that earlier tension likely hadn’t fully melted off and you’re fighting a losing battle. Again, this is all perfectly normal and natural. If you find yourself in this situation, just pick up where you left off tomorrow. Simple as that.

Once you have gotten properly wet, however, you are going to now put some lubricant on your dildo. You want it to be just enough that it’s slightly slippery. If you’ve gotten wet enough naturally, that will take care of the imbalance.

[Note: Ideally, you want to use a water-based lubricant. Others may result in allergic reactions as well as are more difficult to remove afterwards]

A good test to see if everything is working perfectly up to this point is to slowly insert it inside of you. If it slides in easily and with pleasure, you are on the right track. If things are a bit of a hassle or it doesn’t make you accidentally moan, add some more lube. Once you get the perfect amount, it’s time to get f**ked.

Step 5: Dildo Sex

Now that you’ve got properly set, it’s just time to enjoy sex with your new best friend. There are a number of different techniques and moves you can do and they all have their place. That said, the dildo is your man now. Use him as slowly, as deeply, as quickly, or intensely as you like. Be sure to also use your free hand to touch yourself (breasts, face, and clit) for even more pleasure.

  • Deep Thrusting: If you are a fan of getting “filled in”, this is the technique to focus on. Make sure you are grabbing the dildo at the base and that it, and your hand, are dried of any lube. You should ideally have dildo that is either semi-firm or very firm so that it can feel the most pleasurable.
  • Short Thrusts: If you’re more into the shorter but faster thrusts, consider this option. While not as deep as the earlier option, by going faster and faster, stimulating the earlier parts of the body, you can essentially build up on the momentum of the intensity, creating a pretty sensational orgasm. Since you aren’t going too deep, any dildo works great, but consider a lighter one that is less firm as this technique can be tiring on the hand and arms muscles.
  • Deep Penetration: Slightly different from Deep Thrusting, the Deep Penetration is less of a “technique” and much more a usage. If you want to have that “full flavor feeling” as you’re getting pressed at all sides to the point that, no matter what, it’s tickling your bladder, this is what you’re looking for. The only thing is that you’re going to need a sufficiently-sized dildo to fully give you the feeling.

G-Spot Stimulation: Finally, for those that specifically want to feel pleasure from stimulating the G-spot, there’s a technique for you too. If you don’t know where it is, simply place 2 fingers inside and do the “come here”/ “come hither” motion. This will touch a soft, spongey place which is the G-spot. In terms of dildos, you’re going to want something that fairly rigid with a slight curve to it. If it has bumps and notches along its body this is even better. Then, using the dildo, slowly drag it across the G-spot at a pace you feel good about before letting nature take its course.

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